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We won't talk about that
So.

I have been keeping a little secret from y'all. I know. But, I think I was living in the denial of its reality lest I talk about it and jinx myself. Not that I believe in jinxing but I'm just saying.

Anyhow.

It occurred to me a couple of months ago that three of my kids would be gone for the same two week time span- this week and next week. I assure you I love my kids from the bottom to the top of my being. Love them. Love them tons. But my love may or may not have gotten super excited about the prospect of finding something for the other two kids to do during this time thus making Art and I kid free for two weeks.

I know.

So, I got to researching and found some fantastic Christian Camps. The one that seemed perfectly suited for Brooke had an opening for this two week span. And the one that seemed perfectly suited for Ashley also had an opening for this same two weeks.

Squeal!

My excitement could hardly be contained until I had a suppressed memory come back to haunt my little plan making self.

Several years ago Hope and Ashley went to summer camp for two weeks. They were young- like 3rd and 4th grade. Anyhow.

I was very diligent about packing everything according to the camp list. I also marked each-and-every-piece-of-their-belongings-with-a-sharpie-which-took-hours-and-make-my-head-hurt-thank-you-very-much. All that to say, I did force myself to operate outside my norm and pay some attention to the details.

And I was quite proud of myself.

Until two weeks later.

The camp called to inform us that pick up day is today and hello, where were we.

Hunh?

I was certain pick up day was tomorrow and we were in New York.

And that's all I'll say about that little situation. We won't talk about that because I don't want to live in the past and have it taint my current situation of pure bliss.

So.

I will say that I know for sure when pick up day is occurring this go round. And I will say for sure that Art and I will be hanging a "Do Not Disturb" sign on our front door until said date.

Just in case you were pondering stopping by.

Don't.

We'll be busy. But we won't talk about that either.

Smiles~


28 Comments:

Blogger Danielle said...

Ooooh, you blessed woman! Have a wonderful time with Hubby!!

OpenID bluecottonmemory said...

Our boys have been involved in Cedar Lake Camp, a Christian camp from age 5-14. They either went to day camp or over-night (depending on their age). At 14, they became counselors-in-training. One some became a counselor. It is such a blessing to go spend time, grow, make friends, solidify your walk with leaders who mentor. I volunteered one week in the kitchen just to see all my boys and be a fly on the wall (note, not in the food).

No matter how perfect we try to be as moms, it seems something always happens to humble us. . . and in front of our children, too:)

Blogger Headless Mom said...

My 9yo went to church camp for the first time this week. The 18yo is out of state for a month. The 7yo is alone with us for the first time ever! for more than one night. It's either going to be a great week of mommy/son bonding, or a veerry long week of Pokemon. Any bets?

Anonymous Anonymous said...

We just did the same thing!!!! WHAT A WEEK!!!! I felt so refreshed when our children returned on Sunday!! What a blessing!!! ENJOY!!!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Enjoy your time. Do not feel guilty. All of us "Women" need our time by our self.
I just did the same. But my daughter is with "grand mom"

Blogger Wendy said...

You go girl!!! I have four kiddos too so I know how much you will enjoy your alone time!!
I just wish I could get my kids interested in camp;)

Blogger Judahsma said...

Enjoy your kid-free time!

Blogger Shelly W said...

Oh my goodness, I just laughed out loud at your "I'm in New York" story! Because that is something I would do--totally. Seems like the older I get the more I have to check and re-check dates and times of things. Crazy.

Hey! I have a week this sumner where the stars align and all three of my kids are gone at the same time too. But my "alone" time with my hubby will be cut short because guess where I'm going? . . . to She Speaks! . . . leaving him home alone to collect the kiddos one-by-one. :)

Enjoy your time alone with Art, Lysa. We'll miss you!

Blogger ET @ Titus2:3-5 said...

I am in the same boat as Shelly! Three of my five are gone the last week of July into August, and Daddy gets to collect them all from camp on his own (with the two little ones in tow)! Heehee. I can't wait for She Speaks!!!!!

Blogger Mocha with Linda said...

LOL - well, since Ashley isn't refusing to go, I guess she wasn't too traumatized.

Have fun! Oh, and March 2010 will be a great time for a birth announcement.

:-)

Blogger Allison said...

Have a great time with your hubbby! Enjoy the time! I wanted to say that I am so ashamed. I have been reading your blog for a few weeks now.(just hooked up from someone else blog)I have been reading yoru bookd "The Bathrub is Overflowing but I Feel Drained" I did not even realize it was your book. The book excellent. I have been able to apply it so much to my life and share insights with my friends. THANK YOU for being such a wonderful woman of God!!!!!

Amen sister! My husband's parents take our boys for a week of VBS every year - and THIS is the week! I too love my boys beyond description, yet I have to admit that this is my favorite week of the whole year. Just a little break. A little break that I somehow always fill up with projects and whatnots, but a break all the same!

Congrats and have tons of fun!

Blogger Toknowhim said...

Awesome for you both!!!

Blogger Becky said...

I'm so happy for you and only a teeny bit jealous. : )

Enjoy your "honeymoon."

Blogger Alyce said...

you are sooo funny...and oh so fortunate! We need that alone time w/ our hubbys..We haven't had it in a lONG time. This morning my mom called and told me to bring my girls over this afternoon and they could spend the night. I said YES MA'AM! Called my hubs and informed him it was just us tonight. Told my girls daddy and i were going to have a nice romantic supper. They then about gagged and through up their pancakes, that I so lovingly made them this morning. Then, I remembered. I have a meeting tonight...ick.. The last meeting lasted over 2 hours. Tonight though, I will leave the mtg early and they can just get over it! I'll do so in a kind, Christlike manner though!
You and Art enjoy your time together!!!

Blogger Lorie said...

First...good for you! I love my kids more than I ever thought possible but I still love to have time alone with my hubby (for sure)! So enjoy your time!

I love the story about camp! I have nightmares about not being there on time to pick my youngest up. Thankfully he is home from camp already for this year so no more worry about that.

Have a super two weeks!

Blogger Kim said...

HA!~~Have fun and GREAT planning!!

Blogger Unreasonable Grace said...

ahhhhhh! a woman and man after my own heart.

We, too, are kidless for a couple of weeks - and LOVING it! In a different way than we LOVE the kids, of course.

ENJOY!!!

Blogger Amanda Rogers said...

Love it!! hehehe.... Love your blog Lysa...keep up the great work; I have been looking for a real Christian woman's blog with real issues..even stuff we won't mention :) Blessings to you and your hubby during this break...

Blogger Lindsey said...

I often find myself smiling or letting out a little chuckle when I read your blog...today it was a full on laugh.

Your children are blessed for many reasons...one of them is because you know how important it is to make time for your hubby.

I know you and Art will have a WONDERFUL time!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have been reading your blog for about two weeks now and only commented once. I can relate to so many things that you share.

I couldn't resist telling you how much you bring tears, chuckles, and just plain old ah-ha's to mind when I read.

Let me share something with you....
My husband is leaving for Florida tomorrow for 5 days with his friend, and I am squealing about being "alone" for awhile!!

I can knit, sew, read, build "piles" and no one will care.
(I especially love building piles )

Oh, don't get me wrong; I love alone time with my husband; but I am so looking forward to this alone time, too!

I hope you and Art have a wonderful two weeks together! You deserve it!!

Way to go Lysa! You the woman! :)

Blogger Chatty Kelly said...

PAR-TAY!

Wooo!

Holy cow, girl - you making us Christian women blush?...So I guess I'll make you blush....just saying.
My parents used to do a lot of marriage talks at churches and events...my dad would always start off with his standard joke after the introduction. "Yes, thanks for the welcome etc etc...Donna (my mom)and I have sex almost every single day, even after x# of years of marriage...almost Monday, almost Tuesday, Almost Wed. Everyone would laugh and I would always be mortified.
You enjoy your "almost" days... without the almost. :)

Blogger Stephanie said...

Have a good break! Every mom needs it!

Blogger Mari said...

Woot for Lysa and Art! Have "fun" (wink wink)

Blogger Lelia Chealey said...

2 week camp?? Where? When? My husband is 44...too old?? :)

I see words on your blog, but all it looks like to this mom of three LITTLE kids is "blah blah-blah blah blah-blah, blah!"

*sigh*

Sandy

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