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Prayers for the very mean lunch fairy
Today I wrote a Proverbs 31 Devotion about the battle I sometimes have in my head where I bounce from feeling like a good mom to a bad mom... good, bad... good, bad... and on and on.

So, tell me what kind of mom gets half way to school and realizes this is what her youngest daughter packed in her lunch box?



Ahem.

Yes, well it seems as though my youngest talked her older siblings into taking certain liberties when they were sent to the Target to get a few items for lunches this week.

We now have an abundance of goodies that mama bear does not usually allow said cubs to buy. First, they are expensive. Second, they are crazy full of sugar. And third, a child crazy full of sugar makes a mama crazy in need of sugar and she gains weight.

So, yesterday morning one young cub was fussing at another young cub for taking snacks out of our supply and selling them on the playground at school.

Excuse me?

Yes, it turns out that the youngest likes to play restaurant. Apparently it is in her blood from her father's side. Only instead of selling her wares for money, she sells them for rocks.

Rocks! Like those things we have 15 million of in our front driveway.

All kids at school with moms who say no to sugary snacks for lunch sacks have been very happy this week. Each morning these classmates have been gathering rocks from the school yard. Then at lunch when my youngest sets up her shop, life suddenly gets quite sugary and hyper for some of these kids.

Have mercy.

Too bad the very mean lunch fairy found out about this plan. And too bad lunch pails are placed on hooks outside classrooms. For the very mean lunch fairy devised a plan to foil the sugar factory restaurant.

She flew to the local Subway and purchased a sack containing a ham sandwich and apple slices. She then made a little switcharoo much to the dismay of all the rock toting lunch friends. And of course the very mean lunch fairy blew kisses inside newly packed lunch pail before flying home with the removed sack of sugary wares.

Good mom? Bad mom?

It can wear out even the best of very mean lunch fairies.

So, here's a little list of prayers to lift your spirit and encourage your soul no matter if you are having a good mom or bad mom day.

As a mom I pray...

* I will leave behind any sins or generational strongholds passed down to me from previous generations. I am a new creation in Christ. The old has gone, the new has come! Teach me to become the mom you created me to be.
(2 Corinthians 5:17)

* God will instruct and teach me the way I should go as a mother. God, please counsel me and watch over my family.
(Psalm 32:8)

*I will cast all my anxiety on God because he cares for my children and me.
(1 Peter 5:7)

* My walk will be worthy to be followed by my children. God, please be my shield.
(Psalm 84:11)

* I would not embitter or discourage my children, but instead bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
(Ephesians 6:4; Colossians 3:21)

* I would only have good things stored up in my heart so that when I speak, the overflow of my heart will be good for my children to hear.
(Luke 6:45)



52 Comments:

Blogger Amy B said...

Okay that is classic!

And Lysa my dear, you are a wonderful mother. If that had been me I think I would have started a new rule:allowance is paid in the form of rocks!

:)

That is hilarious. If she only knew she was getting duped...or does she have a thing for rock collecting.

Blogger Leebird said...

Lysa...I just got home from the airport and had to tell you....I have my very own God moment on an airplane story...now I just need a platform to speak upon!

I'll blog about it tomorrow once I've gotten a decent night's sleep. I'm too pooped to whoop right now.

Anonymous tdm4him said...

God is Good All the Time! Even when we feel like we are a bad mom! Praise the Lord for your devotion and your blog - you have encouraged a worn out mom today! Thank you Lysa.

Blogger Carolee said...

Loving it this morning! Past couple days I haven't felt like a new creation...Thank you!!!!Don't know exactly how it happened but got myself down for a couple days after losing much needed sleep last week. Realizing I need to get my Bible open tonight after things quiet down...absence of truth in prayer has left me lacking lately!

PS...I have done my share of recess duty...once got called "eagle eye" and it wasn't meant as a compliment! HHHH loved your story!!!!Also another reason I dread sending my BIG "cookie monster" to the store hungry...never know what will come home!

Blogger Kimberly said...

Wow...who knew mean lunch fairies possessed such great Biblical knowledge!!! :)

Isn't God just so good that He provides you with such wonderful, spiritually inspiring adventures with your children so that you can touch the lives of others? :) hee hee

Serioulsy, though, I love how you have phrased these verses as prayers for moms! We really do need to take His Word and actually apply it to our lives. Thanks for helping us do that.

Oh, and try to resist eating the confiscated sugariness. I have heard that a mean lunch fairy hopped up on sugar just isn't a pretty picture. :)

You are terrific!
K :)

Blogger grey like snuffie said...

That is so dang funny. Well at least you can be encouraged that she wasn't extorting money out of the other kids. I totally understand all the energy it takes with a household full of kids and all that is on your plate---but I hope the humor that I read is settling deep into your heart. When they're all gone someday the memories will fill you with a wistful wish to have just a few of those days back. Honest!

We've been honest with our kids since they were little and probably didn't understand---that we're not perfect and glory how many times we presented them opportunities to learn of God's ability to heal wounded hearts. As we ask them to forgive us at times we must also forgive ourselves---and remember---as long as we're all His and seeking Him as best we can---He promises to use all things for good.
We want to pave a path of avoidance for our children and it is good to pray against things, but we also need to embrace that we want Him to use whatever it takes for them to be His---and that path is often twisted and rocky. Wow there went my rambling mind.

Blogger Joyful said...

Your daughter just packed my son's DREAM LUNCH! Thankfully he has huge respect for the Dentist Fairy who may have to inflict pain should such lunches be consumed on a daily basis!

Wondering...what was she going to do with the rocks? There's another story I'm sure.

Have a great day,
Love & prayers,
Joy

Blogger Celeste said...

This is my first visit to your site. Thank you for your personal family story and from the wisdom shared in the suggested readings. I feel totally blessed and You are a WONDERFUL Mom. I love you already.
Celeste

Blogger Catherine said...

Hilarious and so creative!

What was her reaction to the lunch fairy and her kisses? At least she replaced it with a yummy lunch...way to go lunch fairy!

My problem would be that the lunch fairy would feel it was her personal responsibility to 'take care of' each and every snack removed from the lunch bag which would require a visit to the Weight Watchers fairy!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

lysa, this is great. God sure is talking to me this morning. i will use these scriptures in my role as a mom

Blogger Pamela (MrsJoeB) said...

Too funny!! I love the prayer and scripture at the end. Thanks!

In His Graces~Pamela

Blogger Digging for Pearls said...

Lysa,
You are so funny. Thanks for bringing a smile to my face this morning! :)

Blessings,
Pearls

Blogger Jill said...

Lysa, Thanks for sharing the story! But especially thanks for the encouraging words and scripture as you closed.
Blessings, Jill

Blogger BethAnne said...

Rocks? If you could only teach her to take money instead.......just kidding....kinda.

Maybe you should set her up in her own vending business......or maybe she could invite her friends over and charge them for magic mattress rides in the pond........you gotta love an entrepneurial spirit.....she is definitely going to grow up to be a business woman - I say nurture that so that she can take care of her parents in their old age with all the money she makes............oh, and you are a good mother who loves her children --- dont ever question that!!!

Blogger AnnieBlogs said...

Ok, as a former teacher I am CRACKING UP.

It's always the good kids that run businesses out of the classroom.

They're the only ones smart enough to fill out the income tax forms.

Blogger Tammy M. said...

I love it, the Subway switch ; )
Thank you for your list of scripture/prayers, those will go up in my house somewhere.
Generational strongholds...thanks be to God that he is mightier than our raising.

Anonymous Toks said...

So there are others like me?? I feel loved all over by God for directing me to read this. Mom of four and trying to run two businesses (in two countries) without being a bad mom is hard! I love the fact that I don't have to be validated by my mistakes- or lack but by God alone. "Only as God sees me" is my new mantra, Thank you Lysa!

Blogger Busy Mom said...

Oh, so I see that I'm not the only one! Giggle! My daughter does the same thing with packing to much junk! You post made me laugh and realize I'm ok--this happens to others!

Blogger JottinMama said...

Thank you so much for the devotional and the scriptures today.

Oh, how I needed that this morning!

Blogger Shelly W said...

Oh my, that is SO funny! I love the picture especially. And I can't wait to hear your daughter's reaction to the switched lunch--you must follow up. :)

Thanks for sharing those verses. They really do help.

Blogger Kristi said...

Lysa, I would like to affirm that you are truly guided by the Holy Spirit in your ministry. Today as I drove to work I was praying about these very things--that I often feel like a failure as a Mom, that my husband and I both brought generational "baggage" to our marriage, and about my lack of a personal time with God each day. So many times as I read your devotionals and/or blog they are so fitting in my very own life at that very time. May God bless you richly for allowing Him to use you in this way. Your ministry has truly blessed my life. Thank you!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hallelujah! I couldn't have written it better myself! I have never identified with a P31 message more than this one today!

Thanks for some much needed encouragement from one good Mom to another. May God bless you and your ministry.

Anonymous Denise said...

Lysa, Thank for your words of encouragement. My son had a meltdown this morning that I did not handle well. I know I am not a bad mom, but felt guilty after I dropped him off for school. I so needed to hear this message. Thanks again.

Blogger redsoxmom said...

LOL! This sounds so much like something my 8 year old DD would do! She loves rocks (gotta say, I did, too when I was her age). Ya gotta give her credit for her ingenuity, though! Just wait until she's older and you can embarrass her with this story. Good mama bear!
Blessings,
Linda

Blogger Southern Mom said...

Thank you for Today's Devotion. I have been struggling with Good Mom - Bad Mom this week. I am a daily reader of your blog and the Proverbs31 daily devotion both are such a blessing in my life.

Blogger $5 Dinner Mom said...

Thanks for putting into words so eloquently, what I seem to experience day in and day out! I appreciate the verses and encouragement as well!
Blessings from one mama to another!
Erin

Blogger Christine K. said...

Lysa,

What a wonderful way with words you have! Thanks for the chuckle as I absorb God's words of wisdom spoken through you.

God bless you and your family!

Chrsitine K.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your devotion is so timely for me, as today I leave my job in the "real world" to be a SAHM. I'm thrilled and privileged God has made it possible for our family... and a little apprehensive for the "good days, bad days" which are inevitable. Thank you for the reminder that bad moments don't make me a bad mom and for the encouragement to strive to be a good mom.

Blessings!

Anonymous Musical Mom said...

Hi! This is my first time on this site. Awesome! I just had my good morning cry, and then turned to this site in my inbox. I have 4 children, and I've just had two teachers tell me that 2 of them have ADD, and I suspect the other two have similarities. Try to get 4 kids organized for school, and on top of things. AAAAHHH!!!I tend to beat myself up, but I'm a good mom, and YES! God's grace covers the bad moments. Thanks for the laugh and encouragement- kids are great and a gift, aren't they?

Anonymous Anonymous said...

When I divorced my daughter's father years ago, I stepped away from the church. I guess you can say that I stepped away from God as well. I still thought of Him...but I did not invite Him into our lives. I pretended that I was a "good" mom while depriving my daughter of something she needed...our Lord. I made sure she was polite, well groomed and studious but it stopped there. It hit me about a month ago when she mentioned (while we were eating dinner) that she wanted to look into wicca. She said she wanted to believe in something and she felt witchcraft was "back to nature". Needless to say, that scared me straight! How could I be a good mom when I was not teaching her about God? We are looking for a church to belong to even as I type this. We were in a church this past Sunday and will continue on. The purpose of me writing this? To first of all thank you for this wonderful blog, to say how much I look forward to reading my devotional every day and finally, to ask all of you reading this, please pray for me and my family. I know this is going to be a long road, but I trust my Lord to help guide me towards being a truly GOOD mom.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great mom and great story and prayer verses..Easy to identify with you as a mom,even as far away as KIGALI!And guess what.."children"-even as adults need their mom!When it all seems so hard that you end up crying,God is near to comfort you and guide/protect you-like your mom would have done.So ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS CALL OUT TO HIM QUICKLY.
My children are all grown up(last born is 21yrs) but as a grannie..I'm reliving that parenting experience and love it.
God bless you Lysa,I love you.SCHOLA

Anonymous Joanie said...

Thank you, thank you, thank you for these prayers today. I have been struggling with the "bad mom" worry a lot lately as my pre-schooler is in time-out more often than not. He has been sent to the principles office at least once a week since school started and they have even threatened to suspend him. I picked up the book "Have A New Kid by Friday" by Dr. Kevin Leman, and he pretty much confirmed my suspicions. There is so much that my husband and I can and should be doing better. Dr. Leman says, "seeing the changes you want implemented is more about you than it is about your child. It's more about changing your Attitude, Behavior, and Character than him changing his Attitude, Behavior, and Character." OUCH!!! I read that statement and I realized that we had become "authoritarian parents" instead of "authoritative parents," in response to the increase in the negative behaviors that we are seeing.

So, we are redefining our whole strategy with our son and praying that God will direct our path. We want to see him succeed in life and believe that we are on his side.

God bless you Lysa!

Blogger Becky said...

I love your Brooke stories. She reminds me of my oldest.

I just copied and pasted your prayer list into a Word file so I'd have it to pray everyday. Thank you!

~ Becky A.

Blogger Mari said...

Get that child a store! Only tell her she has to charge money. And she can support Proverbs31 Ministries with her profits :) Or fund her college fund:) What a business mind she ahs!

And thank you for the prayers and scriptures. I'll be referring to them often I am sure.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had a very bad mom day yesterday... one where I had to go to my daughter and apologize for my outburst. As we were hugging I said, "I think we forgot to pray together this morning..." she quickly reminded me that we did indeed forget to begin our day w/prayer as usual.

...needless to say, God knew that your devotional was exactly what I would need this morning! He is so sweet to us, and I am humbled by His kindness. Thank you, Lysa, for being a vessel for God. Thank you for being so transparent and honest and willing to share your own struggles -- it helps to know that I'm not alone. (Thanks for the laughs too!!)

Michelle
A home school mom

Blogger mark&beth said...

Although I've visited your blog several times, I'm new to comment. But, I couldn't resist this one. As a mom of four kiddos ranging from 2 to 10 years old, I am more frequently finding myself allowing...or needing...the older ones to take care some of these "details" on their own. I was laughing so hard reading the antics of your smart cookie. (no pun intended!) Thank you for "keeping it real." You are an encouragement to me. And hey, when our precious little ones get to Heaven and stand before their Savior one day, is He going to care if they filled their stomachs with sugar when we weren't looking? :) Oh, to be a kid again!

Blogger Amy Jo said...

Oh my word! I am totally cracking up and yet have no words in which to reply to your little tale. Thank you for sharing. I so needed this today!

That's great Lysa!!

I was listening to an old Hearts at Home cd of you talking about motherhood and I remember you saying something like one of the most important things you can do as a mom is not freak out!

I think of this A LOT when I'm out running errands with my kiddos.

So thanks!! :)

Blogger Wanda said...

What a girl!

Can anybody say.....ENTREPRENEUR??

Good mom, hands down!

Funny, funny!

Blogger a.helms said...

As a mom I pray... Lysa, Thank you so much for this bit of wisdom. This is EXACTLY the type of things we were discussing for my project last week and here you are writing about it. Thank you for the blessing.

You reminded me that it has been a long time since I checked the lunch bags as to what they are packing....tommorrow I WILL be checking!!

Thank you so much for the personalizing of these verses--that is something I should do more of in my bible studying. It is very helpful.

And to Anonymous above that is looking for a church for you & your daughter....you are being prayed for. I am praying that God will provide a "church home" for you both and that you will have the emptiness in your hearts filled with the love only he can give.

blessings,
Kim

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh my goodness. And all of this is totally my fault because they told me they were alowed. Haha.

Blogger mholgate said...

Lysa, as a mother of five myself, I really appreciated your devotion today. It really encouraged me and at 6:34pm when dinner is still not on the table, I needed just that. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Blessings, Melissa

Anonymous Suzie Eller said...

Will you let your youngest daughter pack my lunch. Please?

Blogger Elaine said...

Hi Lysa,

Just a thought...(in ref. to Psalm 84:11 prayer...I'm wondering how our trust in God would deepen if, instead of asking Him to be our shield we proclaim (and so affirm) that He is, in fact, our shield! That's the beauty of the One who IS the Great I AM. He calls out to us, "I am your..." We get to fill in the blank according to every single need we have. Psalm 84:11 echoes this by saying "For the Lord our God IS a sun and shield." I'm just glad that I don't have to hold out hope for such a thing. Because HE IS all things, He has already answered every plea I could ever make.

What do you think?? :)

Love to you.
Elaine

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh Lysa, if only you knew how much I needed this devotional/blog! Raising 3 boys on my own (their father works abroad), the oldest being 17 years old, is sometimes too much to handle. And yesterday I did have a very bad day with my oldest. Thank you very much for reminding me about His grace that is available for me.
You have an amazing way with words - thank you, Lysa!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh Lysa, if only you knew how much I needed this devotional/blog! Raising 3 boys on my own (their father works abroad), the oldest being 17 years old, is sometimes too much to handle. And yesterday I did have a very bad day with my oldest. Thank you very much for reminding me about His grace that is available for me.
You have an amazing way with words - thank you, Lysa!

Blogger Lelia Chealey said...

Oh friend, I so needed this laugh!!! And the visual of you blowing kisses into her lunch pail was precious.

OH the funny things are little ones do.

Thanks for the laugh...good Momma!

Blogger Latanya Wagner said...

Oh, how hilarious!

Thanks so much for the prayers and scriptures. Since I am a home school mom they are so much needed!
I was actually praying a few of those for myself this week.

Latanya

Blogger PJ said...

Wait until she gets to middle school and learns she can make a mint selling chewing gum (that deadly contraband) out of her locker!!! Open that kid a bank account. She wants to be a millionaire!!

Blogger Creekwader said...

So that's what the piles of rocks on the cinder blocks are for -- Brooke's store!

And I hear the candy and hairdo's are to die for, darlin.

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