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Fear-LESS Living... Part 2
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Today I am giving away a copy of my message on CD called "Fear-LESS, Thank-FULL." This message breaks apart 2 Timothy 1:7 and teaches how to truly live your daily life without fear. To enter simply leave a comment below.

Whenever any of my kids have a bad dream, they know they can always find safety and security by calling me near. Sometimes I'll make my way to their room and climb in bed with them. But more times than not, they want to make a pallet beside my bed. Something about mommy and daddy being "near" quiets their soul and calms their heart.

How like our Heavenly Father when we get entangled in fear as well.

A popular verse people like to quote on fear is found in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

I love this verse. But I have to be honest... this verse once troubled me. I can't just pull myself up from my bootstraps and say I won't be anxious when I am experiencing fear.

It's like a parent simply walking to the doorway of child who has had a bad dream and saying, "Don't be anxious," and then walking away. That child would not feel comforted. They don't just need the words- they also need the soothing presence of their parent as well.

That's why this verse should never be quoted outside the context by which God gave it to us. You see, there are four very powerful words that come right before the , "Do not be anxious" part.

Philippians 4:5 ends with, "The Lord is near." And because the Lord is near... we don't have to be anxious. When I put this verse in context and see that God promises to be right with me and right with those I love with the verse takes on a whole new meaning for me.

It's His PRESENCE plus His PROMISE that dispel my fears and anxious thoughts.

And we must also look at the words that are wrapped behind this verse as well. Philippians 4:8 instruct us, "Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable- if anything is excellent or praiseworthy- think about such things." In other words, God instructs us to PARK OUR MINDS on that which is true and right and worthy of praise.

Oh how hard this has been for me at times. I can have such a run away mind where I focus on my fears and blow them way out of proportion. But this PARK YOUR MIND concept has been huge for me. I consciously make my mind park on God's truth.

When I feel fears start to haunt me, I start quoting all the scriptures I have memorized dealing with fear. I quote them slowly and intentionally, I claim the truths contained within, and I verbalize my belief in God out loud.

Many of you know that Holly and I run each morning together. I drive over to her house and we run the streets of her neighborhood. About a year ago, Holly heard me talk about parking your mind on God's truths and decided to record some of our favorite Scriptures on her back door... the door that her family and friends most often use when going in and out of her house.

So, each morning when I arrive for our run I see in huge bold letters, "Park Your Mind" written across her door in permanent marker. Then all kinds of Scriptures are written all over that door reminding us of God's power and God's presence.

I am convinced the more we fill our minds with God's truths, the more crowded out our fears will become.

So, is your favorite verse on fear? In the comment box below, leave your verse and the Scripture reference. And then check back later today to read through all the assurances of God's presence and promise.

Maybe make your own PARK YOUR MIND SPOT in your home. It could be a door like at Holly's house or a basket filled with index cards that you place beside your bed. Whatever works for you is great. And if you want to share your PARK YOUR MIND spot in the comments along with your verse- that would be wonderful as well.

Also, I wanted to give you a quick update on an e-mail I got from Sumi yesterday. If you didn't read yesterday's post, you can scroll down and see her story. But ladies our prayers literally carried Sumi yesterday... please keep praying.

Here is what she said, "Lysa, I went to Walmart for the first time today and it was so hard pushing the empty cart past all the aisles I had visited with Jenna and remembering all our conversations and games in the store. As I left, I thought to myself: I should be falling apart right now. But I realized that I wasn't...because of all the prayers going up for us. Truly, the prayers of others have been carrying us, and your post today enabled so many more to pray - I can feel it! So, thank you."

Truly ladies... the Lord is near... with both His presence and His promise.

And one last reminder- tomorrow is our "Swap and Hop" with an organization theme- Show or tell us about one organized thing in your house.

It will work just like the Recipe Swap and Hop from last Friday except this Friday... I HAVE GIVE AWAYS. So, be thinking about how you want to get your post ready for tomorrow.

I'll put the Mr. Linky system up tonight. Sweet Blessings Sisters!


117 Comments:

Blogger jenmom said...

Lysa,
I have often wondered if I still succomb to a spirit of fear if that means I really don't trust my God! He has been teaching me lately how to really I mean really trust and rely on Him and nothing or no one else! Fearless living, yep that's what I'm learning to do.

Blogger Latanya Wagner said...

Hi Lysa,

My Park Your Mind Spot does not specifically mention fear, but it can be applied to the fear we experience in our lives when we are facing various trials in our life. It comforted me when we lost our Abigail. It reminded me how even though I was going through a very difficult grieving time, that God was there in the midst. God had something amazing to teach me that He could only teach me by allowing me to go through her loss.

"Consider it pure joy my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perserverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking for anything." James 1: 2-4.

Verse 12 of James 1 is also a great verse that goes hand in hand with 2-4. In fact that whole portion is a great read when you are facing trials.

Latanya
www.scentstosuccess.blogspot.com

Blogger Holly said...

One of my many favorite go to verses..."Search for the Lord and for his strength, and keep on searching."
Psalm 105:4

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa - your favorite verse in Phil 4:6-7 is mine. But here is another good one on having faith, not fear:
Romans 8:15
For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. [ Or adoption] And by him we cry, "Abba, [ Aramaic for Father] Father."
Chatty Mom

Blogger Carol said...

Lysa,
I love the idea of parking your mind. I will definitely remember that one. One of my favorite verses on fear is: The Lord is my light and my salvation - whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life - of whom shall I be afraid. Psalm 27:1

When I think of this verse, I am reminded that when I am feeling afraid of the dark, dark places in life where evil exists, Jesus is the light. He is like a flashlight I carry within me where ever I go. And I love the line "The Lord is the stronghold of my life." He is someone we can hold to and not be afraid to fall.

Blogger Michelle Bingham said...

Thanks Lysa for this topic. My children often struggle with fear at night and I really have to pray with them to help them feel that peace. It is hard to see them fearful. I remember that verse, sometimes it is said here a lot.

Michelle

Blogger Jennifer said...

Lysa, thanks for the great post(s), they have been really enCOURAGE'ing.

I love the idea of "parking your mind" on God's truths. Holly I am going to copy you....

I am going to try to make parking spots ALL over my house. Verses on fear and protection on our outgoing doors, about inner beauty in our bathrooms, about generosity and hospitality in the kitchen and family rooms, love and prayer for the bedrooms and ....

One of my favorite verses for enCOURAGEment is Is 41:10

Do not fear for I am with you; do not be dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.

I love the picture of God holding us up with His mighty right hand.

BTW, first came across this verse via a kids CD which we have now almost worn out. It's called "Seeds of Courage" and it's NOT your average kids CD, it is straight scripture set to GOOD music, specifically designed to help kids (and the taxi driving moms) memorize scripture. The songs are so good that I keep listening even when the kids are not in the car. AND after 3+ years of having it, it is still one of the most requested CD's in our car. If you go to cbd.com (Christian Book Distributers) and just search on Seeds of Courage it is the first listing. There are other "Seeds" cd's but the only other one we liked was "Seeds of Faith." I believe these were the first two and they are much better then the others. You can even listen to the songs and/or download them at cbd.com.

Have a blessed day everyone!
Jennifer

Anonymous Genni said...

I've struggled with different types of fears my entire life. When I began having children, (I have five, too) the focus of that fear became them. One day my mother told me that she was claiming the verse you mentioned for me in prayer. And as you well know, God hears mothers' prayers :). Fear creeps back in on occasion. I suppose it always will. However, now I hold to that promise like a drowning woman at sea.

Thanks for the reminder. God bless you, your family and your ministry.

Blogger Joyful said...

Fear is a giant in my life. I know so many "be not afraid" passages, but my problem is getting them from my head to my heart. I have a love/hate relationship with many of these verses. "Perfect love casts out fear". So...when I'm fearful, does that mean God's love is not in me? "Fear not, I am with you.." Ok..so when I'm afraid, am I not trusting in God's presence with me? I hate when I give in to fear because to me it shows such a lack of faith. Must say, Holly's verse above has really encouraged me. I've never really noticed that verse before. I will keep searching!
Often little "Much Afraid",
Joy
PS. I have your CD and it's great! Wonderful teaching!

Blogger Sister Honey Bunch said...

I love this post, and this idea of parking my mind. Here is my favorite from Psalm 46:10:

“Be still, and know that I am God!
I will be honored by every nation.
I will be honored throughout the world.”

Blogger vanng said...

Hi Lysa...
I just want you to know how much I look forward to reading your blog each day. That is the way I start my morning at work.

I enjoyed your post this morning about fear. My favorite verse is indirectly about fear. Proverbs 3:5-6 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path." Oh...if only I would always trust in Him and not try to direct my own path!!!

I'd love to have your CD "Fear-LESS, Thank-FULL." If I don't win it from your giveaway, is there a way to purchase it???

I hope you have a great day!! Thanks for all your encouragement.

Ginger Vann
vanng@ecu.edu

Blogger Yolanda said...

Lysa:

You truly encouraged me as Lelia is putting together a study on your book! I read the first chapter earlier this week and had a GOD MOMENT, instantly!

Also, I don't know that I ever saw that the Lord is near prior to being told not to be anxious. WAY COOL!

And my PARK OUR MINDS, is a few years back Crayola came out with the markers that write on glass/mirros. So at times when God is really speaking to me about a particular scripture, I write it either on our bathroom mirror or our full length mirror in our bedroom. Also, index cards are simply a must! :0)

As far as fear goes, when I did "Believing God" that truly helped me with my fears.

Love to each of you,
Yolanda

Blogger tiggerdaisy said...

Lysa,
What a great post! Truly, you are so listening to God right now...so listening! Thank you!

The verse, or shall I say verses, I turn to in time of fear is Psalm 91. I basically go through the verses and make them my own. For instance, take verse 1: I dwell in the shelter of the Most High and rest in the shadow of the Almighty. All 16 verses give me hope, courage and boldness. To speak God's Word back to Him in my own words...to pray God's Word...what confidence it gives me in my walk with Him!

I also like Psalm 139. To know that God knit me in my mother's womb...that He has laid His hand upon me...that His right hand will hold me fast...ooohhhh, what sweet, sweet words these are to my soul!

Girls, this post has me PUMPED! :) :) I can't wait to hear all the verses you will share throughout the day.

Prayers and Blessings to you all!

Rebecca
tiggerdaisy@gmail.com

Blogger Amy said...

Thank you for this message today. Visiting your blog is something I do every morning (after my devotions).

My favorite verse on fear is Psalm 4:8. I will both lie down in peace, and sleep; For You alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.
Amy

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Lysa,

I loved this entry today. My favorite verse on fear-less living is Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you be strong and courageous? Do not be terrified, do not be discouraged for the Lord your God will be with you where ever you may go."

P.S. I found "the jacket" at Marshalls (a TJ Maxx company)and it looked great on.....until I turned around and I "fear" it made my backside look even wider than usual. Trust me,you don't have this problem - must be all the running with Holly. LOL!

Christ's blessings,

Jessica

Blogger kimgolds said...

I cannot tell you how much your devotionals these last few days. My son overheard a very scary situation at school and I had to talk to the principal about it and the enemy had me riddled with fear and protecting my kids while they are at school. As I have read the last 2 devotionals it has really helped me to surrender my children to the lord and trust him completely to protect them while they are away from me at school. Thank you so Much!!! My fav. verse for fear is Phil. 4:6 thank you for the words before about the lord being near. I needed that so much! God Bless!!! Kim

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
Thank you for the enCOURAGEment you provide so many by God speaking through you. 2Timothy 1:7was my lifeline verse several years ago as I struggled with panic attacks. Thankfully I am able to resume a normal life now but still cling to God's truth proclaimed in this verse & the many others listed. I know He is in control of everything and is surprised by nothing!
Praise God!

ceddins@drexelheritage.com

Blogger My2boys said...

What a great website. My dear friend just e-mailed me this and I'm so excited. This is an area in my life that I struggle with! I can't wait to get home and write all these scriptures down to use as encouragement when fear creeps in. Thank you. God Bless.

Blogger Janet said...

This blog is also something I look forward to participating in everyday. God is teaching me to spend time with him in the still quiet of the morning before I leave home and go to work where things are fast, furious and stressful. Then when I start to feel overwhelmed I am prodded by God to Be still and know that He is God...

My favorite verse on fear is a part of Rom. 8:31 but below is the full passage so it is not taken from context:

If God is for us, who can be against us?

Rom 8:31-39 NIV) What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? {32} He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all--how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? {33} Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. {34} Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died--more than that, who was raised to life--is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. {35} Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? {36} As it is written: "For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered." {37} No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. {38} For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, {39} neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

having said that if God is for us - whom/what then shall we fear? Nothing and no one, God holds us in his mighty hand!

just my two cents for what it's worth!

Janet

Blogger KNCouture said...

I love reading your blog and also Proverbs daily devotions. They really put a lot into perspective and actually help me to get through the tough days. Recently I have found myself over come with grief and uncertainty. (I get very scared and worried about things.) My boyfriend sent me a card with the following verses: James 1:2 “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds.” And Hebrews 13:5b-6 “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you: So we say with confidence, “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can mad do to me?” I immediately started crying! I will now carry those verses with me and read them to remind myself that I am not alone and I never will be! I should not be afraid with Jesus by my side!
Thank you again for your daily blogs, they really mean and help a lot.

Kristin
kncdancer5@yahoo.com

Blogger irishgirl said...

Good Morning Lysa and Fellow "Bloggy" Sisters!

I think fear is something that grips all of us at many times in our lives. I was laid off last July and was out of work for almost six months, but the Lord worked on my fear (and I had a ton of it!!), and I just leaned on Him for everything. I would ask all of you to continue to pray that I would do just that everyday: lean on Him at all times!

One of my favorite verses on fear is 2 Timothy 1:7:

"God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."

How is that for a promise??? Boy, God is cool!! :-)

Praise God that Sumi is taking one day at a time - I will continue to pray for her and for her family.

May I ask all of you to pray for me? I seem to let my busy life (work, relationships, training for a triathlon, working out, etc.) get in the way from my drawing even closer to the Lord. Would you all pray that I would draw closer to God - how I want to be closer to Him and to have a deeper relationship with Him! It just seems like I let life and living get in the way of that! Thanks!

Y'all have a blessed day! Take care!

Lara <><

Blogger Debbie Giese said...

Hi Lysa,
I am driving across the state of Wisconsin with 2 little boys today to pick up my daughter from college. I was feeling nervous about the drive alone. I opened my Bible directly to Isaiah 43:1-7. "Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they will not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned and the flame shall not consume you." This scripture reminded me that no matter where I go, He is with me. Today it is my verse to remember.
Thanks!
Debbie

Blogger pdugger said...

I love your blog! I also have that verse as a favorite comforter of mine. but Psalms 34:17-19 also is a favorite:

17 The Lord hears his people when they call to him for help.
He rescues them from all their troubles.
18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted;
he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.

19 The righteous person faces many troubles,
but the Lord comes to the rescue each time.

Isnt that great! He comes to our rescue! Theres also a song that comes to mind.... called Through it All:

I've had many tears and sorrows,
I've had questions for tomorrow;
There've been times
I did'nt know right from wrong,
But in every situation
God gave blessed consolation;
That my trials come
Only to make me strong.


Through it all, through it all,
Oh I've learned to trust in Jesus,
I've learned to trust in God.
Through it all, through it all
I've learned to depend on his Word.

I've been to lots of places
And I've seen a lot of faces
There've been times I felt so all alone
But in my lonely hours
Yes those precious lonely hours
Jesus let me know I was His own.

I thank God for the mountains
And I thank Him for the valleys
I thank Him for the storms
He brought me through
For if I'd never had a problem
I wouldn't know that
He could solve them
I'd never know what
Faith in God could do.


What a wonderful GOD!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

God is truly AMAZING!!! I am in the midst of various trials presently and God is with me. He is speaking to me thru Casting Crowns song "Voice of Truth" (Do not be afraid...this is for MY glory), thru the Prov 31 devotional, thru NEWLIFE 91.9, thru this blog, thru prayer, thru His Word...HE IS ALWAYS WITH US! Romans 8:28 And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. Phil 4:13 I can do everything through Him who gives me strength. Col 3:15-17 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, as you sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.
I post my favorite scriptures all around my house.

Blogger MK said...

I am terrified of trusting anyone, including God. I am a "if you want it done right, you'd better do it yourself" kind of girl. As you can imagine, that does not work very well as a wife, a mother or a child of God. Over the last couple of years, God brought me to a place where I had no choice but to rely on others. I had no choice but to trust Him. I am having to learn to trust the people HE has brought into my life, not because I trust them but because I trust Him. When I struggle the most, I remember the words of Romans 5:1-5 where He promises that although everyone else in the world may disappoint me, He never will...
"...and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." (verse 5)

Blogger valerie said...

I was just reading some comments from the LPM blog and #296 said "good luck to me with anyone reading this since I'm comment #296...." and went on with a prayer request. I wrote her and shared with her this very verse in II Tim. 1:7! Then, I got on here and read it on your site.
I appreciate the update on Sumi. I couldn't get her and her family off my mind all day yesterday. That picture of her little girl in that princess outfit popped in my mind all day. I'm so thankful we have each other to lift up to the Father. This blogging "ministry" has been and continues to bless me so much. Isn't it amazing how we can pray for someone and cry for them and we don't even know them? God is so good to give us this gift of technology.
Thank you Lysa for your awesome devotions and the way you serve our God.
Love,
Valerie

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Lysa,
I absolutely appreciate your transparency. I so enjoy your blog and devotions. I have had on my to do list-- post scriptures for my family --for some time. I do post sticky notes and index cards, but haven't taken time to be more consistent or have a routine or system. I was just speaking to my 3 daughters yesterday about this project that I wanted their assistance. I told them that I'd like them to design on the computer with their creativity scriptures to post in the house and that we'd also place them in page protecors in a binder. I love the Park Your Mind concept. I am going to borrow it for the front of our binder and our posted areas around the house. I really appreciate all of your efforts to encourage and equip sisters in Christ. I love reading and learning from all the blog sisters. Who knows I might just set up a blog myself! I am looking forward to meeting you and other sisters at She Speaks! God Bless Your Day!
Fran Westlund fwestlund@windstream.net

Anonymous Luanne said...

Lysa,
My favorite verse that sustains me in those moments of thinking that the worst is about to happen is "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV) I always feel like God is saying "don't worry, I'm already on it and it helps me relax. When my sister and I were caring for my dad the last few days of his life it became a mantra for me one night when I was there by myself and he became very agitated and restless. My mind was crying out "God I can't do this" but reciting the verse gave me courage knowing that God was in control of whatever happened.

Luanne

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
your posts yesterday and today have truly touched my heart. In trying to explain to my believing husband who still compartmentalizes his life into secular and "church" why it is important to me to participate in bible study - you summed it up. Relying on God gives me peace of mind, calms my fears as a mom and gives me comfort that no person on this earth is able to - no matter how much I love them and they love me. Thank you so much for all that you do. I saw you in Nov. 06 at the Hearts at Home convention in Rochester MN and love to visit your blog and love the inspiration of the daily Proverbs 31 devotions. Colleen cwarmka@hotmail.com

Blogger Danelle said...

Lysa,
I look forward to reading your blog each morning! And these past couple of days in particular, you've been hitting me right where I'm at. I struggle with worry and fear a lot - so your words, as well as the verses and encouragement from all the comments, have been very uplifting. Thank you!

Blogger dt said...

Phillipians 4:6-7 is my verse. I also like 1 Peter 5:7 Cast all of your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.

Blogger Lelia Chealey said...

Morning Lysa & blog sisters,
When I did Beth Moore's study, Breaking Free one thing she said is we have to re-wallpaper our minds. I carry a little holder for 3x5 cards in my purse with scripture on it so during those times that fear or temptation set in, since I always have my purse I always have God's Word close by. I just pull it out & read it. I love Holly's idea. How cool!
I agree with Yolanda's comment above as I'm doing the Blog Bible study of your book too. I am re-reading the book & now doing the study & am just expecting much from God. I had a very restless morning...finances on my mind & I literally tossed and turned. It was horrible, but then I woke up to this reminder. I too looked right past the "Lord is near" part of that verse. WOW! Thanks Lysa!
Sumi's e-mail brought tears to my eyes. As I sat in the DR's office yesterday with my pregnant teen Jenna was on my mind. I told my mom & dgtr about her & tears filled our eyes. I love how God used you to reach out to her & she didn't even know it. Your heart just beats obedience to God Lysa!
Love,
Lelia

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I often struggle with fear. It tends to be the obssessive type of fear. My husband goes somewhere...I worry about him having an accident. I leave the dryer on when I leave...I worry it will short out and the house will catch on fire.(I realize that these fears seem silly, but I have anxiety problems.) I have fears also about work, relationships, etc. I have prayed about this, and I often wonder if the enemy has established a stronghold. I pray for the stronghold to be demolished, but it still stands. I know my Lord Christ is good and true, but I know with my mind. I need to know with my heart. Please pray for me. Sumi's story is a great encouragement to me. I want to have a faith like hers!

Blogger Amy said...

After I got married my worst fear was that something would happen to my husband. I was at times comsumed by this fear. Six years ago, my husband died, talk about living your worst fear. But after a couple of weeks or so after his death, fear was the first thing that left me. I didn't have fear anymore. You would thank that at 35 years old and with a 3 year old daughter and "what now?", I would have been racked with even more fear but I wasn't. The Lord just kept reminding me "I will never leave you nor will I forsake you" The Lord was never so available and present to me as He was during those months and months of early greif. And to this day, I still live fear free.

Blogger Celly B said...

Lysa,
I love the idea that it is the Presence & the Promise of God that can relieve our fears. Reading in context is so important!
Your post reminded me of another verse: ". . . we take captive every thought to make it obedient to God." (2 Corinthians 10:5)

Blogger Pam said...

Parking your mind. I absolutely love that concept and plan to intentionally incorporate that into my days . . . starting now!

Thanks so much for this series of posts. As you can tell by my site name and my life verse at the top of my header, this issue is a constant one in my mind.

Other than my life verse, which you shared so eloquently yesterday, another verse that has grounded me in the area of fear is this one:

"He reveals the deep things of darkness
and brings deep shadows into the light."
Job 12:22 (NIV)

I need not fear the unknown, because He brings it all into the light.

Thanks again for these posts, Lysa.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This devotion on fear is very instructive as so many of us Christians fear so many things not remembering that fear is of the devil! We need to practice to PRAY first and foremost when we sense this debilitating emotion coming on.
Anyhow, I have never associated "not look down on" in this verse with fear at all. I have always read it to mean "not see them as lesser persons"...this may be just cultural and nothing to do with the original Greek? Interesting...

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This devotion on fear is very instructive as so many of us Christians fear so many things not remembering that fear is of the devil! We need to practice to PRAY first and foremost when we sense this debilitating emotion coming on.
Anyhow, I have never associated "not look down on" in this verse with fear at all. I have always read it to mean "not see them as lesser persons"...this may be just cultural and nothing to do with the original Greek? Interesting...

Blogger Lynn said...

Lysa, I enjoy checking your blog everyday. Thank you for your transparency and honesty. My "park your mind spot" is going to be my computer desk. I already have verses taped above it and it makes it so much easier to memorize them that way. It's also a place where everyone that used the computer can look up and see them. My favorite verse is Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord..." I know whatever happens to me, the Lord has planned it and HIS plans are so much better than my own.

Thank you... Lynn

Blogger grey like snuffie said...

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. Prov. 3:5 My own understanding, my human way of looking at things is what opens me up to fear. When my eyes are on Him then whatever the reality of this life brings it will be well with my soul, because my foundation is Him, not the shaky ground of this life we think we have created----how it should be. The only "should" is understanding that He is God and I probably won't "get it" sometimes. He is still worthy of praise and honor. Fear is deathly trying to avoid pain---knowing Him, He is big enough to get me through anything--so I can lay my fear down and trust He is able to do for me all that I can't imagine. Sometimes its easier to surrender the fear, sometimes it takes ALOT of praying to release it.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for these writings on fear. I had a realization after reading your devotion yesterday that fear has paralyzed me most of my life. My new favorite verse is Isaiah 41:10. "Do not fear for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." I can picture God holding my hand in His right hand as if I was a child. I really don't need to live with fear. That is what Satan wants but not what God has planned for me.
God bless, Dena
d.kania@sbcglobal.net

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Fear tried to run my life; but years ago God helped me to realize that it was a strategy of Satan. When I started to recognize it, it learned to fight against it with God's power.

But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you. For surely, O Lord, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield. Psalm 5: 11-12

Angie
nelson4@socket.net

Blogger Mocha with Linda said...

All these years I have known that Philippians verse from memory...and I have never realized that "The Lord is near" is the sentence right before it!! How important context is!

When I'm going through a difficult or fearful situation, I love recalling Psalm 139:16 - "All the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be." How comforting the reassurance that nothing is happening to me that has not been sifted through God's hand.

Blogger Lynn said...

Hi Lysa,

Awesome post and greatly needed. I know so many of us who walk in fear instead of freedom.

I love Psalm 91. 7 A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you...

If God is near, we need not fear.

I am always filled up when I stop here. Thank you for sharing your heart with me. Love and hugs,

Anonymous Anonymous said...

As I read over the previous blogs on the topiv of fear; most of them include scripture. I think that assures us that is how God wants us to defeat fear; with scripture; reading it, memorizing it,praying it, etc. . There is power in that.
Angie
nelson4@socket.net

Blogger Van said...

I am sure you have heard this, but just in case you haven't FEAR - False Evidence Appearing Real. My two sons have taught me about facing fear. The spiritual investment I made in their tiny lives came back to bless me many times over. Their trust was so true. They forced me to stop and face my fears. Once on a dark rainy night in Chicago our car's battery died. All the lights in the car went out and we sat stranded as cars whizzed past us. Any moment we risked being reareneded. My precious son - 7 or 8 at the time looked at me with fear written all over his face. But suddenly, in a flash he said -"I know what I can do. I am going to pray to Jesus who was in the boat during th storm." He bowed his head and asked Jesus to come into our car and protect us. How do I combat fear - you are right Lysa. I have God's Word! PS visit my blog to find out about a drawing for my DVD that teaches children about facing their fears.
vanwalton.blogspot.com

Blogger Leslie said...

I have also dealt with a lot of fear this past year, although I've had many wonderful things happen - I married a wonderful man and we just moved into our new home. Dreams are coming true. Fear has been the great big cloud in our blue sky. Here's a verse that God brought to my attention one day to help me:

I said to myself, "Relax and rest. GOD has showered you with blessings." (Psalm 116:7, The Message)

Blogger Natalie Witcher said...

God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for this devotion and your comments. Believe it or not I was crying out to God this morning to help me overcome my fear. I am a Pastors wife and God has called me to minister also, but I am having a hard time accepting this call. I know that God has called me but I have this fear of talking in front of people, always have. I sing on the praise and worship team and that doesn't bother me, but just standing up there by myself, I just get overcome with fear.
The awesome thing is that God has dealt with me about preaching the Mother's Day message and he has even given me the scriptures. I feel like that because of this devotion today and the encouraging words I have read, that God is speaking to me (through you) that he is going to help me overcome my fears. I would appreciate your prayers, that God would help me be the servant he has called me to be.

Thank You So Much,
Pastor Vicki Weldon
fluff_w@cox.net

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
I read your devotional today and it struck my heart to the core! Just to briefly tell you about myself. I had four children, the last two were twins. David and Zachary. They blessed our home with joy beyond anything that I could have ever asked God for. I truely believe that God does not give you more than we can handle and believe me that statement has brought me to my knees several times.
My twins were injured from their 4 month immunizations. Our babies had to struggle for every breath yet they found happiness in their very struggle for life. Zachary died 5 years ago at age 3 1/2 from kidney failure. And our sweet Davey died 5 weeks ago. I cannot tell you how much the Lord has shown me that HE knows my pain and HE loved them and entrusted them to me. I find comfort in that knowing that the Lord gave me two very special children to love and care for until HE called them home. I am at peace knowing that they are together and in the arms of our loving God.
I have a picture of an angel holding two babies and it says "Blessed are the pure in heart for THEY shall see God" Matthew 5:8. I look at it every morning and I find comfort in that verse. To become the mother and wife that God wants me to be and I will glorify him in all that I do especially with raising my remaining two children.
For all of those out there that have grief and sorrow just remember that the happiest, sweetest, tenderest homes are not those where there has been no sorrow, but those which have been overshadowed by grief and where Jesus's comfort was excepted. I beleive that there is a blessing sent from God in every burden of sorrow because I have been truely blessed.
In His Service,
Amber Nikoley
fourambernik@sbcglobal.net

Blogger Sonseeker said...

I love the "Park Your Mind Here" concept. I'm guilty of just driving around in circles when I should be resting in God's promises. Great idea to have a spot in your home like Holly's door or a basket.

Sabrina

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't tell you how much these words have helped me. I have kept Phillippians 4 posted beside my desk at work. Everytime I start to feel down or fear pulling me down, I reread this verse then give my worrys over to God. My eight year old son was diagnosed last year with a rare genetic disease which is robbing him of his eyesight. Unfortunately that is only the tip of the iceberg. The doctors tell us that he will start having seizures and will slowly loose bodily functions including the ability to communicate and even eat. This disease will rob him of his life here on earth by his early twenties. This has been devastating to hear, process and deal with. My husband has shut down and has been out of work for a year now. Through it all I have trust in our God that he has not left us but carries us along. There are times when fear takes over about what is going to happen and how we are going to manage but once I stop and pray God's peace fills my heart and mind and I know that everything is going to be okay.
Blessings, Karen

Blogger suzanne said...

Now I am a grandmother, but when I was a little girl my precious mother would comfort me with this Scripture. These words still come to my remembrance when I'm afraid. Psalm 56:3 "What time I am afraid, I will put my trust in You." His life giving, calming words continue to comfort me. Thank you Lysa for your heart to serve and encourage other women. We are grateful for your ministry.

Blogger Carolina Mama said...

You are speaking right on target right now. Just last night, my husband and I were talking about this topic. I was talking about all of these safety-guards and my husband reminds me, like you, it is all in the master's hands. He is in control.

Like your book, "Who Holds The Key To Your Heart" - I love that illustration of the little girl and the box of letters! So true. The reminded me that I can't control and prevent everything.

God Bless!

Blogger Amy said...

I needed to hear today's devotion. I have never posted here or anywhere actually. But I have a daily fear of losing my 5 year old son Elijah. He has already had 2 open heart surgeries and will eventually have more plus has spinal anomolies and fused ribs in his chest. I have a chromosome disorder that is called a balanced translocation that I never knew about until we had our sweet angel Kaytlin Faith 3 years ago. The Lord called her home when she was 2 months old. The docter's gave us a 78% chance of having a healthy baby, but they do not know what God has planned. I live in daily of fear that I did not realize until I was typing this. WOw. Anyway thank you for planting the seed adout not worrying, I do need the Lord to calm all my anxiety's and fears.

Blogger Janet said...

sonseeker's post called to mind the concept of getting off the carosel that I learned about in a Bible study I participated in at church last year. I can't remember the name of it but it fits in perfectly with the "Park your mind" concept!

Janet

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
This is my "freak out" verse. This really struck a chord with me while I was pregnant with my second daughter. My first daughter was born two months premature after I had severe preeclampsia/abruption. We both almost died, but the Lord saved us both in His grace. Anyway, I was so excited to be pregnant again but also so FEAR-FULL. My hubby is a C-130 pilot, and we had just moved to a strange city, we didn't know a soul, etc. God sent me the most amazingly calm doctor (lol) and a wonderful church family to fill in for missed friends and family for those eight months. The Lord also sent me this passage from Psalms, which I placed beside my bed and memorized so I could recite it during times when I would become overwhelmed with fear for my baby, my health, my husband's safety, not being around family, etc. I can say this pasage soooo fast. "Strangely" enough, I didn't tell anyone about my Psalms 139 obsession...but my pastor brought me a copy of the passage the day after I had a lovely c-section that resulted in the birth of my sweet Emma. How weird is that?

Psalm 139
For the director of music. Of David. A psalm.
1 O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.

2 You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.

3 You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.

4 Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.

5 You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.

6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.

7 Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?

8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, [a] you are there.

9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,

10 even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.

11 If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,"

12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.

13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.

14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.

15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.

17 How precious to [b] me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!

18 Were I to count them,
they would outnumber the grains of sand.
When I awake,
I am still with you.
(AMANDA'S ASIDE: OKAY, SO IT IS ALL GOOD UP UNTIL THIS POINT, AND THEN THE FREAK OUT STARTS:)
19 If only you would slay the wicked, O God!
Away from me, you bloodthirsty men!

20 They speak of you with evil intent;
your adversaries misuse your name.

21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O LORD,
and abhor those who rise up against you?

22 I have nothing but hatred for them;
I count them my enemies.
(AMANDA'S ASIDE: SO IT SEEMS LIKE DAVID REALIZES WHAT HE IS DOING IN THE NEXT VERSE AND ASKS GOD FOR HELP! ISN'T THAT AMAZING?? MAYBE IT'S JUST ME!)
23 Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.

24 See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.

Hugs for all my sweet sisters in Christ!
Amanda
janeaustengirl@yahoo.com
By the way, pregnancy #3 was a walk in the park, lol.

Blogger Susan said...

After reading your entries about fear, it hit me what I've been living with for 31 1/2 years. My mother died when I was eight, and it changed our whole lives. Mama was 40 years old.

So, for all these years, I have lived in fear that I will die young, too, leaving my four children behind. On Feb. 5, I became one day older than my mom. It was a weird day--I kept thinking about how different I felt. And a trust in God, that I hadn't felt EVER, came over me, and I have been rejoicing ever since!

Though there are some situations in my life right now that should be causing fear--my husband quit his job (out of his own anxiety problems), even though we have three cut off notices from the utilities--and I am fully trusting God to take care of this! I would normally have so much pain in my back and shoulders from the stress, but there is none--and I am AMAZED!

I'm going to copy and paste the verses you blogged, print them, and place them where I see them often, so that I will be reminded that my full trust should be in God alone, and that I have nothing to fear!

Thank you, Lysa, for this ministry.

In His Love,
Susan

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love the concept of Park your mind. I really need this visual. I tend to at times let fear and worries overwhelm me to the point, I have a hard time functioning, I just go on auto pilot, but not truly thinking like I should. So I will remember this and put it into practice. In Christ, Angie Gullett

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you for putting up this message, it is something i really needed to hear. I just recently suffered from a miscarriage, and have been very afraid of what is happening. So when I read this, it really helped me to see things in a new light. Thank you for all that you do.

Heather
angel_girl51484@yahoo.com

Blogger BethAnne said...

Oh Lysa, why did you have to pick organization? Why couldnt you have said "Everyone tell us how you hide the junk when people come to visit?" I could have so contributed to that one!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
I have long struggled with anxiety. I use these verses as a daily reminder of God's hand on my life.I keep this posted on my computer.
Phillipians 4:6-7
Never worry about anything. But in every situation let God know what you need in paryers and reuests while giving thinks. 7. Then God's peace, whick goes beyond anything we can imagine, will guard your thoughts and emotions through Christ Jesus.

Blogger mholgate said...

Lysa, thank you for your perspective on fear. I am actually memorizing 2Timothy 1:7 this month. One of my other favorites, though, is "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." (Joshua 1:9, NKJV) It has been a life verse for me and has encouraged me so many times when I feel paralyzed by fear of change, or what the future will bring.

My verse is short, but very sweet.

Psalm 46:10 "Be still and know that I am God."

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've struggled a lot recently with fear and anxiety. There are some great verses listed here. I am so thankful for God's Word that helps us in our daily battle(s) with the world. The verse I have depended on recently is John 10:10 "The thief's purpose is the steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life." What better way for the enemy to destroy us than through fear. I have to remember daily that God is All Powerful, Dependable and Trustworthy.
Sumi & Amber, I wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss. I just lifted you up to the Father in prayer.

May you all be blessed today,
Tammy

Anonymous Tiffany said...

Can I just tell you how much the last 2 devotions have spoken to my heart. Being a mommy, I definitely have fears of something happening to my little girl. She is the light and joy to me and my husband's life and we both know that it would be so hard for us if something were to happen to her. And sometimes, fear does paralyze me from even leaving the house because I want to protect her. Thank you for reminding me that I need to trust that God has His perfect will for my life...and the He loves me, DH and Madi far more than I possibly ever could. The last line in the devotion said it perfectly "even when I can't understand His Hand, I can trust His Heart."

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am an EMT in a small town. I was called to a very bad motorcycle crash. While on the way I prayed for God to help me to give the care needed and for protection. You see that day it was me and a trainee onboard. And it was my first really bad run. The only one who I trusted to help me that day was God. All went well and I was able to do my job and to help God save a life. When I got home I had people asking me who my new EMT was. I was very confused, all the people who drove by that day had seen the same women standing over me holding my shoulder. The only women on the scene that day was me. That I was aware of. As for angels yes I do know that they are watching protecting all of us who are Gods children. Thank You for todays devotion. God Bless all of you. Anissa Qualls
amqualls@frontiernet.net

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa, Thank you for reminding me that I need not fear for my children. Like you I have been kind of weary of the "angles" story but I am soo excited that its in God's word. I feel like the Lord just said to me, See, I said it. now believe it. He has His angles guarding my children and me 24/7. Praise Him.
Leslie M

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I will reiterate that your comment about "Parking the Mind" really reminded me of what I've known for a long time. Thank you for being real!

My favorite "fear" verse is Isaiah 43:1-3 "But now, this is what the LORD says—he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: "Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the LORD, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior...".

mandy_moo3@yahoo.com

Blogger K. Langston said...

These are the scriptures running through my head while I was on the table for an emergency C-section:

“I look up to the mountains; does my strength come from mountains? No, my strength comes from GOD, who made heaven, and earth, and mountains.  
He won’t let you stumble, your Guardian God won’t fall asleep. Not on your life! Israel’s Guardian will never doze or sleep.
 
GOD’S your Guardian, right at your side to protect you— Shielding you from sunstroke, sheltering you from moonstroke.  

GOD guards you from every evil, he guards your very life. He guards you when you leave and when you return, he guards you now, he guards you always.” (Psalms 121:0-8 MESSAGE)

Blogger hisrose said...

Hi Friends,

I am encouraged by all the responses to this topic of fear. I battle fear on a daily basis due to events i experienced as a girl and recently in my life. The verse I use to get through them doesn't mention fear but speaks to me anyways. It is Jeremiah 29:11

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord "plans to proper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

I am glad so many of you have responded to this blog. I find strength in numbers and knowing i am not alone spurs me to continue on.I ma praying we turn to God in time of fear and press on.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa, After reading todays Proverbs 31 devotional written by you I felt compelled to forward it on to several women important to me from various aspects of my life, Christian and non alike.

"I just read my devotional for today and am forwarding a link to it for you. It is really amazing how often I receive these and make a snap judgement to pass it off because it would smack of another story about child rearing. After all where was this when I needed it. Even though my kids are all raised there are always lessons regarding child rearing or being a younger parent that can apply to the old fogeys or grand motherly types such as myself.

This devotional has provided me confirmation of God's involvement in my life through out all the events of my past. God was always there even when I felt alone. Loved me even when I didn't feel loved. Carried me when I couldn't carry myself. Teaching me so I might recognize His wisdom and knowledge so I might pass it on to others like yourself. More importantly over the years He has instilled within me the knowledge there is nothing I cannot survive or live thru as long as I lean on Him and not on me!

Please read this, meditate and study it using the questions asked at the end.

Each one of you are special to me in many ways and come from many aspects of my life. Know you are loved by many but most importantly by the heavenly Father. Even those of you who aren't 100% convinced of a heavenly father."

I pray that each woman will find some sort of encouragement from your God given talent, I know I certainly did!

Thank you Lysa,

Katie
vjantz@comcast.net

Blogger Michelle said...

Putting Philippians 4:6-7 in context and relating God's presence to a parent's presence gave me a deeper understanding and even acceptance of the verses.

To combat fear, my favorite verses are "She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of failure," Proverbs 31:25, and "God met me more than halfway he freed me from my anxious fears," Psalm 34:4.

I use stickers or even post-it notes to place scripture in my car, my calendar, and at my desk to help park my mind.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hebrews 13:5, especially in the Amplified Bible, is helping me through this fearful, despairing time in my life. I truly appreciate the emphasis God puts at the end of the verse about not abandoning us.

"Let your character or moral disposition be free from love of money [including greed, avarice, lust, and craving for earthly possessions] and be satisfied with your present [circumstances and with what you have]; for He [God] Himself has said, I will not in any way fail you nor give you up nor leave you without support. [I will] not, [I will] not, [I will] not in any degree leave you helpless nor forsake nor let [you] down(relax My hold on you)! Assuredly not!]

Anonymous Heather said...

Lysa, I find that I start fearing that, more than fear for my kids, I fear that my past will consume me. That nothing good can come from me, from my past... I end up doubting that God will work all things for the good of those who love him. Then I berate myself for my lack of trust.
The scripture that has reassured me and comforted my fears is from Joel 2:25-27

"So I will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten, the crawling locust, and the chewing locust, my great army which I sent among you. You shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, and praise the name of teh Lord your God, who has dealt wonderously with you; and My people shall never be put to shame. The you shall know that I am in the midst of Israel; I am the Lord your God and there is no other. My people shall never be put to shame."

Such a powerful promise... no more shame, years that were taken away, restored...
Between that and many of the Psalms (which is where I gravitate towards in times of pain and trial) I find great comfort.
God Bless,
Heather hkudla@gmail.com

Blogger Sonseeker said...

I forgot to include my verse above. A few others have mentions Psalm 91. The verses in it that give me comfort are verses 4 and 5 I take comfort in tucked in under the Lord's wing.

2 They say of the LORD, "He is my refuge and my fortress,
my God, in whom I trust."

3 Surely he will save you
from the fowler's snare
and from the deadly pestilence.

4 He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.

5 You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,

6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
nor the plague that destroys at midday.

7 A thousand may fall at your side,
ten thousand at your right hand,
but it will not come near you.

8 You will only observe with your eyes
and see the punishment of the wicked.

Blogger stitchndeb said...

In late January a woman named Cyd Mizell and her driver were kidnapped in Afghanistan. Everyone at church was praying for them. I felt really scared for her and couldn't imagine what it would be like to be in that situation. It has since been reported that they were killed, so now they're with God. The verse that comforted me during that whole ordeal was Psalms 118:6 The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me? (NLT)

Blogger Honea Household said...

If you go read my blog...I wrote it last night at midnight. I was worrying and fear had crept in. I was scared. I could not sleep. And then this devotional came this morning...we serve an all-knowing God. This could not have come at a better moment.

Thanks and much love to you, sister!

Blogger Honea Household said...

I also got the devotional today. Wow!

When I was first saved as a little girl of 9, the devil really attacked my mind with fears at nighttime. Almost every night I would go running through the house to find my Daddy to "pray the fears away". He would alway tell me to just say "JESUS" over and over again. He reminded me that there is power in the very name of JESUS! Through my tears I would mutter "Jesus, Jesus, Jesus". I learned that the name of Jesus makes every demon shutter and that they can't bear to stick around.
My Daddy would also have me repeat 1 Tim. 1:7. "For God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, of love, and of a sound mind". The Lord always delivered that sound mind and I fell fast asleep.

The power of God to protect and give peace was engraved on my little mind and I know that it has given me confidence in each valley since then.

I want my four little boys to know that there is POWER in the very spoken name of JESUS!

Blogger elaine olsen said...

"Have no fear of sudden disaster or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked, for the LORD will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being snared." (Proverbs 3:25-26).

Most of my fears stem from my pondering of the all the "might happen" situations regarding the lives of children. Everytime a thought creeps in, I remind God that he is my CONFIDENCE! I think he rather likes this name. It puts my trust all back on him.

Also, I do pray over all of my anxious thoughts. God's promise? His peace. He is always faithful to deliver the portion I need.

peace for the journey~elaine

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you Lysa for all of this. I am new at trying to find God and I am learning so much from your site. I spend my days reading, studing and meditating on it. I have live in paralyzing fear most of my life. Right now I am going through a rough time and I am even afraid to leave my house. I will read all the scripture you have given and pray that the Lord will help me learn to trust Him. Please pray for me to learn how to become so close to God that I will not fear and I can live a life for Him instead of being locked in my own prison of fear and shame. Thank you so much. Susie Pogo susiepogo@yahoo.com

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Every little girl should know this. It's not about trust but about an inevitable battle that Jesus understood.He gave us the power of HIS name. We should use it.

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Every little girl should know this. It's not about trust but about an inevitable battle that Jesus understood.He gave us the power of HIS name. We should use it.

Blogger Grammy and Olivia said...

Good stuff in your blog today and it is awesome and encouraging to read all the comments and scriptures that speak so clearly about fear. The scripture I repeat in my head over and over when I fear is Psalm 56:3-4 "When I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid."

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow!!! God is really using this blog in my life - right this moment!!! We have been having several friend and 'boy' issues with our youngest daughter, she's 14. I was beginning to sense that things were going downhill and after reading your blog yesterday I sat with God for quite sometime praying for her specifically.
About 20 min. after leaving my prayer closet, her school counselor called and asked me to come in that afternoon. Come to find out, my dear sweet daughter has begun feeling unloved (due to the fact that she gets griped at around the house!) and had begun cutting!!! Oh GOD!!! my baby!!!
Thank you so much for sharing the park my mind concept! I definitely need it today and in the coming weeks.
We do have a Battlecry event this wknd by Teen Mania, our family will be there, praising our Lord and giving Him contol of our imperfect family!

Blogger TrustNHim said...

I like "Parking Your Mind". I do that many times. Scriptures have been found posted on the fridge and my desk at work when going through trials.
The one scripture I rely on the most though is Matthew 6:34 - "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
I can tend to worry and fear things that could happen tomorrow or even a year from now. But God always brings that scripture to mind on days I tend to worry and fear too much. I have found that scripture to be a great comfort and strength to me. My motto is now "One day at a time". God is faithful to remind me to concentrate on today and only TODAY!! I have found great peace by following God's command to not worry and not be fearful.
Thank you for your encouraging words and "Parking Your Mind".

In His Love, Debbie

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
I truly believe God had you write this post with the purpose I would read it this morning. I in fact did read it and it has stayed with me all day. At lunch today hubby called to say a new position has become available at the school district where is a teacher and a coach. The head of the department even called hubby to tell him they wanted him for this new job. This is a GREAT opportunity for our family. But the CHANGE--ugh! Then the fear and anxiousness set in. I like change is small doses but this is to huge for me to wrap my mind around. So I went back to your blog and re-read the entire post and "Parked my mind". I soaked my mind and my spirit in God's word and a cloud of peace and comfort now envelope me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
God bless you!
Beverly Kemp

Blogger Jami said...

Mine is "There is NO fear in love, but perfect love casts out all fear." I John 4:18

Often it's at night when I'm struggling with fear...my dad says, Fatigue makes cowards of us all. I find this to be VERY true! :)

It's at those times that I remember that God is not the author of fear but of love.

Blogger mazmagi said...

Lysa, Thank you AGAIN for the ENCOURAGEMENT...ANIMO(SPANISH)!
You have such GREAT ideas like today's "Parking Your Mind". You are so creative and inspiring! Yesterday, I wrote in the BLOG that 1 Tim.2:7 was my favorite verse, as one anonymous blogger above wrote, for panic attacks. When I went through the valleys, of course, Psalm 23, comes quickly to mind. But I had been at an AGLOW meeting, during those "ups" and "downs" and they asked the women to come forward for prayer for your fears.
I declared that I can't think of any "fears" I have but soon after
all Fears came to surface even ones I didn't ever think of came to pass in my life. And as I age, I discover more fears. I thought as my walk deepened with the Lord, all fears would leave, but that hasn't been the case! I pray following your suggestions will do just that!

Next time, I'm going to leave a comment in your BLOG, I have to do that first before reading what everyone else writes, because all I have left to say is "DITTO". So I looked for another of my favorites,
it was so hard to decide. It was a tossup between John 15 :4-5 and Isaiah. Isaiah 40:29-31 wins...
v.31 But they that WAIT upon the Lord, shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint....I exchange the word faint with fear...Since I know Isaiah begins 40 with COMFORT, the COMFORTER is there and bring HIS PEACE that passes all understanding
and FEAR cannot enter. Without knowing you or the others on P31team or even Sumi, yesterday,
across the distance, prayer PREVAILS and AVAILS, in the sisterhood of God's Family. I fear LESS and am so FULL of thanks for your MINISTRY and blessings on my
life each day, you pave the way...
and point me in the direction of
God and His Mighty Word! Thanks!
Peggy A. Hernandez de Mexico
I get P31 in my Yahoo email!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow Sumi's story is incredible. I want to live with less fear, especialyy rearding getting older and eventually dying. I cast all my cares upon You Lord.

Christine

Blogger Michele said...

Fear....where to even begin. Last February 28, 2007, my (then) 5 year old daughter was diagnosed with cancer. Stage 4 neuroblastoma, to be exact. It began a year of fear, prayer, worry, prayer, many miracles, prayer, you get the picture. I have learned more about prayer in a year than I would probably have otherwise learned in a lifetime. Currently, my favorite verse is Isaiah 41:10 (& really you can start w/verse 9 and go thru 13) - very powerful stuff regarding NOT being fearful. "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

I have printed & taped encouraging Bible verses regarding all manner of healing & not being fearful all around my house, on the doors, windows, bathroom mirror, above my daughter's bed, everywhere.

She (her name is Chloe)is 1 month away from being finished with her treatment. All scans in January were clear - PRAISE GOD! And we're expecting the ones in April to be clear as well. God IS faithful. He hears our EVERY cry. Cling to him in the fearful times and He will deliver you. He has done that for me time and time again. And we're not done. There will be regular check-ups and tests far into the future. It will probably be forever that fear creeps into my "Mommy brain" over & over. I will worry over every little ache and pain that comes her way. But I know the Healer; He is just a whispered "help me, Lord" away. You just have to drown the enemy out with praises to God by speaking His word out loud.

Thank you so much for speaking about so many wonderful topics relevant to all of us women, and keeping the Lord at the heart of it all.

Blessings, Michele J. Parker
mparker@newportlawfirm.com
You can visit Chloe’s webpage at carepages.com (ChloesJourney) to check out her progress.

So often I try to figure my own way out of uncomfortable or scary situations, the things that cause me to fear. I always come back to, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, do not depend on your own understanding..." My emotions will fly all over the place but God's truth is consistent and reliable.

Anonymous MadisMommy said...

Hey there!
When I was a little girl, my mom used to make me quote this verse whenever i was a little scared - "what time I am afraid I will trust in Thee." I would quote it over and over until i felt at peace with the situation. I even remember going to Disney World and attempting to ride my first "up-side-down ride"! Scary Space Mountain! the entire time I was in line anticipating my sure fall to the depths of despair and ultimate death, i continually quoted that verse from my mom. I am happy to say that I made it out alive and had the time of my life.
Now that I am a grown woman with a little girl and one on the way, I have had many days when I still repeat that verse under my breath. It is not my life verse because I don't live with a spirit of fear. but it sure helps on those "scary space mountain days"!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lysa,
I absolutely love this idea of "park your mind".At times I struggle with fear. Not having children, I often wonder how I would be if anything happened to my husband. I've pushed this fear under the carpet so many times , I forgot its existence for a while..but it creeps out in unexpected times.
All of these verses have refreshed me so much..thank you dear sisters.
Lysa..I love the way you write. You'll be speaking at my church in April but I'll miss you since we'll be coming home from a trip that Saturday. Just know that I've been so blessed by reading you and hearing you speak once at Camp of the Woods.

Dawn

Blogger Laura said...

What a wonderful and encouraging post. I could use a visual reminder to "park" my mind. And maybe my heart too. Just leave it with God. Sometimes only He knows what to do with it.

Blogger Carolee said...

I just keep singing praises unto Him even when I don't feel happiness. I do it until there is a change in my heart, then I can sort out my fears, those things which need repentance from me and that which I give over to God to cover. Thank you for helping me to learn more on sharing my walk in faith. I still have far to travel on that subject but your devotionals and blog are helping to start me in the right direction! My daily Proverbs 31 Devotionals in my e-mail and your blog are a BLESSING!
PS. I think some people I come in contact with are annoyed that I am always cheerful. Which I am! :) It doesn't deter me from laughing and loving, I just wish someone would ask me why...so I could share to them about Jesus without fear of being rejected.

Blogger Amy L Brooke said...

Prizes? I'm so orgainztionally challenged, I can't think of a thing that is organized in my house. I'm about ready to dump all the stuff on the kitchen table in a couple big bags and hide them out of site because I have company tomorrow! Pathetic, I know....

Ah, well. Maybe everyone else will inspire me!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Fear has been my biggest struggle in my walk with the Lord. Thanks for the help and insight on this topic!
karlee3@santel.net

Blogger amy said...

With a blended family and all the stresses that come with that, one of my biggest fears has been confrontation--primarily between my husband and my teenaged son (his stepson). I used to live every moment in fear of the two of them arguing with each other! It was ridiculous. One day God led me to Proverbs 29:25 "Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe" and it has been such a comfort to me. When I live in awe of God first and foremost (reverent fear) I don't feel the need to fear relational tensions in my home. God indeed keeps us safe.

Blogger sbrand1997 said...

I have been struggling with postpartum depression for about the last six months and the biggest part is fighting off thoughts of all the things that can happen to my daughter (SIDS, failure to thrive, now with food, severe allergies, choking...you get the idea). I live in terror something will happen to her. It goes beyond normal to crazy most days. I have been living off of Phillipians 4:8..."and think on these things that are TRUE.." I have to hourly, and sometimes minute by minute, give my thoughts over to God. I remind myself to trust him, that he knows her better than I ever will. I just try to park my mind on that. This is my second bout with PPD (I also had it after the birth of my son).\sometimes it gets hard to keep trudging along but I remind myself that Godd is with me in this mire. Thanks for the blogs, they are a great tool for me, and a welcome break during the day.

Blogger kmom3 said...

"And those who know Your name will put their trust in You; For You, Lord have not forsaken those who seek You." Ps.9:10

There is such comfort to me in knowing I will not be forsaken. No matter what happens, even if it is the worst thing I can imagine...He is NOT going to forsake me. Kind of like your children wanting to be close to you when they are scared. I feel comforted by His closeness. And I love the "have not" forsaken. He hasn't and He won't.
Thanks for this post. I like the idea of making my mind put on the brakes and park. Mine is always running here and there and everywhere. Now I know....I need to park it! :)

Blogger Bev Brandon said...

Lysa, thank you for introducing us to Sumi yesterday. I read Deut. 1:29,30 in my QT this morning and prayed for her. It says: Don't be terrified. The Lord, your God, has gone before you and will fight for you as HE did for you in Egypt, before your very eyes and now in your desert. There you saw how God has already carried you as a father and HE is carrying Sumi All THE WAY through this for it will not go away. And, my verse on fear that comes to my mind is Jonah 2:8 - talk about terrified...this guy was swallowed by a whale and says my prayer rises to you from the belly of the whale--"Those who cling to worthless idols and stuff, forfeit the grace that could be theirs."
Forfeit Grace!! Never.
Facing Fear is letting go of what is worthless, dealing with our stuff, and
Finding a Father who carries the terrified.
Who is worth it all.

Anonymous Dawn said...

Hi Lysa (and blogging sisters)! I have been in a sleep stuper for the last few days... old age and time change, who knew?? But praise the Lord, when I'm asleep, I'm not eatin'! The LORD met me in Psalm 34 this morning too. Verse 4 says, "I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears." Verse 10(b) says, "but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing.".

Fear has been holding onto my leg like a three year old for the last couple of weeks. You see, my hubby (and I) are preparing to make a big decision regarding his job. His hand is being forced to either stay put in a not-so-good situation or move on. He has an opportunity to go to work with another company. A new job will mean much more travel and time away from the family. The timing is horrible. Our son is in the throws of baseball, our daughter in the midst of dance competition season. The end of the school year is coming with lots of school trips and treats/events. And, I've started a new business. In my human, chief-operating-officer of our home - eyes, I foresee this potential move as very hard on the family. The children need their daddy and I need his help as well. We have discussed this at length and hubby knows my heart. I have submitted to his leadership and know that he will do what is in the best interest of our family as a whole.

I cannot see the short or long term benefits. But I want to be obedient (both peacefully and happily). So if you would please remember us in prayer that our confidence in the Lord's providence and sovereignty will be strengthened. And my fear of not being able to stabilize our family and keep it all together will be supernaturally lifted.

Thank you for your prayers sisters and thank you so much for all the wonderful reminders of our Lord and Savior being completely and utterly in control and defeating FEAR!
Much love to all,
Dawn
petitechef@alltel.net

Blogger Sherry said...

I forgot to leave my verse before. Here it is:

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:33-34 NIV

Blogger TefferK said...

Wow! I had been praying to God for scriptures on fear to write on notecards. Thank you ladies for all of your awesome scriptures!!! I'm ready for a breakthrough!

Blogger MrsJoeB said...

Lysa-I completely agree-the more we are into God and the more He is into us-the less we have to struggle with fear, with doubt, with insecurities. At least that is what I have experienced.
In His Graces~Pamela

Lysa - I have been following you since 2002, I have been following Jesus since 2001. My favorite verse on fear is 2 Timothy 1:7,For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

I lurke here often but this is my first post. One day I will be at the She speaks conference. Thank you for all you do in Jesus name.

Lee Anne - Mom to triplets, Holly, Hunter and Hope

Blogger Saved By Grace said...

"I was pushed back and about to fall, but the Lord helped me. The Lord is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation." Psalm 118:13-14. Every time I remember how the Lord has helped me thru other trials, I reflect and know that he will help me thru each one for HE is my salvation.

Blogger Faithful Froggers said...

Lysa,

This is my first-time visiting your blog - coming from the Proverbs 31 Devotion. Your words hit home with me today because I am one of those mothers whose FEARS came true when I lost my 6 year old son to cancer in 2006. I fight fears EVERYDAY, especially when it comes to my other children.

But whenever I feel FEAR creeping in - I think of the book, "If You Want to Walk On Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat" by John Ortberg. In the book he states that "there are 366 "fear not" verses in the Bible. It is the single command in Scripture that occurs more often than any other - God's most frequently repeated instruction." I have learned to give these fears to God and trust in Him - because He understands! Through the darkest of days I have felt God's love, God's peace and God's comfort.

I love the following scripture . . .
"For I hold you by your right hand—
I, the Lord your God.
And I say to you,
‘Don’t be afraid. I am here to help you."
Isaiah 41:13

Truly, God has held my hand and never let go!
FROG . . . fully-rely-on-God,
Heather

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello dear ladies,
God has led me to these devotionals and it has been a pure blessing! I live in Puebla Mexico and my "Park your mind" spot is in my home office over looking a snow covered volcano. I see how small man really is and how HUGE God is and we need to put our trust in Him. My fear verse is the one that says, If God is for me, whom shall I fear.
Bless you all,
HOLLY in Mexico

Blogger Janet said...

Lysa,
After hearing you speak here in Canada in January, I decided that I needed to live my life everyday 'radically obedient'and I have to tell you, that I have been nothing but radically blessed since....You see, my girlfriend and I sat and listened to you speak and turned to each other and both knew that God was speaking to both of our hearts to go and find a friend that was lost in a dark dark world of addiciton.

That monday we met for our mission from God to find our friend who was living on the streets..We prayed to God to guide us and to lead us without fear, for what our day was about to hold, was well out of our norm and control but in the hands of God....The day was truely emotional and amazing...(A very long story with many answered prayers...)At the end of the day we found her...Yes! We found her walking the street, very lost, lonley and cring out to God for someone to come and take her out of this situation or for God to take her life...Praise be to God, we found her!! I still get goose bumbs when I think of the moment of seeing her and God leading us to her...

Since then, many prayers have been answered. My faith has grown to be nothing but radically obedient and the end result is nothing but radically blessed. I have some fear in this situation that our dear friend has not hit her bottom and continues live the dark side..After our emotional week of praying, reading Gods word, crying, and having our dear lost friend give her heart to Jesus..(Prais Him!)We were fearful of what the next few days held because the addition was so strong...But together we read..Deut 31:6 "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."

I can not report at this time that our friend has come out of the dark world but we have put all our trust in the Lord to know that it is all in His time...Until then we wait and pray to God that he will keep her safe and trust in Him that one day she will turn her life completley over to Him. For now I remember the verse John 16:23 " I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." And we know that our lost friend, knew during our jouney that God's hand was guiding all 3 of us for the time we had together, and know that when times are tough for her...I know that she will remember that Her God will never leave her, nor forsake her...

It is amazing how God works and all at His time and His will...Praise be to God...For today I do not live in fear...but truely greatful for the Hope that he places in me...

Thank you Lysa, for your dedication to the Lord and for your encouraging words everyday...It truely brightens my day!
P.S. I am so excitied...Throughout this amazing journey...God blessed my girlfriend and myself to attend 'She Speaks'...Can hardly wait for whats in store next!!

Blogger Ceci said...

Hmmm...seems like there are lots of great verses here that I will have to come back and write down--some I knew, others I wasn't as familiar with.

My verse:
‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’ (Jeremiah 33:3 NIV)

I have been struggling with fear the past couple of days, related to hormones (three weeks to my due date!) and I keep coming across stories of women losing children--either through miscarriage, stillbirth, or other forms of death. It has really weighed on me heavily, to a point where I was not going to read blogs for a bit. But reading Sumi's blog, well, it made me see how silly I was being. Praise God in the storm!

Blogger Mel Z said...

I just recently started reading Proverbs 31 daily devotionals. I had come to a point in my life where I felt alientated from not only GOD but almost everyone around me. I have been making a conscious effort to reconnect. Your devotionals the last two days have really struck home with me.

One of my favorite verses which covers fear as well as faith and weakness for me is: "I can do all things through him who gives me strength" Phillipians 4:13.

I recite this to myself when I am afraid or at times of doubt and it helps me to ground myself and focus on what's important.

Thank you so much!

Mel Z

Blogger sally said...

Lysa-It is 1:44 a.m. and I couldn't sleep. God brought me to your blog this morning to remind me that I am still allowing fear to control things in my life.

It is as though a heavy cloak weighs my shoulders down. At times I feel it lifted & moving & so long for it to be blown away - I long to just be joyful.

Reading your message was a gush of air that reminded me that I must PARK MY MIND - for it does control so much. And I must park it in Him.

Thank you for bringing that comfort and reassurance, so that like a small child I too can settle in & rest.

Blogger karlee3 said...

Recently I was reading some of the Psalms when this verse "jumped out at me": Psalm 27:1
"The Lord is my light and my salvation - whom shall I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life - of whom shall I be afraid?"
In that moment I realized that I want God to be my stronghold - instead of letting worry, fear, and apprehension control and hold me.

Blogger robinegg12 said...

Thank you, Lysa - I need to park my mind in the right places - instead of my negativity lists. I appreciate your ministry.

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